When I was a child I remember falling down and someone always put out a hand and helping me up. The question is where did all those hands go? Today if I fall down I look around to see if anyone saw, I get up, and try to be as inconspicious as possible. The problem is we  need the support of others when we fail at a project or task. Gathering a group around you can reduce the chance of failure and be an inspiration to others in the group to achieve success.

Throughout my life I have looked for the approval of others but never ask for it. When I did something I let others take the credit and felt disappointed when they got the promotion I wanted. I figured that others would notice the great job I did or the guy promoted would help me get a leg up. The unfortunate thing was they usually were afraid that someone would notice that I was better or more resourceful so I got move to where I wasn't noticed as easily.

Think about it, if you fall don't be embarrassed get up and draw attention to yourself. If you fail learn from your failures and show others the wisdom in events of the past. Put out a hand to help others and they will in turn help you. But above all take responsibility for your successes and failures.